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rainee SG

then tell her that you do not think that is right...say that you are already an adult and you know how to think for yourself, and that they are not right all the time. Even if they are your parents,they are still human beings so they are also prone to mistakes...

renorenal SG

it actually depends on how you fight against it...

alexkusu SG

The definition of trust is subjective and varies from person to person. It comes in many forms and many colours. Lets say you trust me to take care of this forum. How do you defined that trust? Or you trust rainee with a particular juicy gossip. How do you defined that trust as well? These two 'trust' are not the same right? The question is, even if trust can be properly defined and categorised, are you willing to listen to the advices or will you be stubborn and close your mind towards them?

starblue SG

i am no longer living off them. i can move house anytime i want and be totally independent. but my mum threatens me against it.

and trust me, i have let in one ear out the other for as long as i can tolerate it. u cannot imagine the things he say about me. but nvm, i dun care if he says bad thigns about me. but he has to go overboard and say thigns about mum also...

but pray, let's not go into my dad, he is not the main issue here... the main issue is still my problem. and i have no idea how to get over them.

rainee SG

lol...sounds like he is just being childish ... Laughing

Othello_Red SG

girl, you're old enough to know what's the best next step for you. you've survived this long. you'll make it thru all this.

renorenal SG

That's ventilation... since he can't get something he want, he will put it out on others by any means...

starblue SG

that one try already. and you do not want to hear what dad has to say about that. Rolling Eyes

starblue SG

like wad? move out and always be afraid of when he will act up and kill mum??

rainee SG

well, ur problems seem to be related to the way you are treated in ur family..

but actually it is kinda simple...but it will need to start from urself. you have to make the effort and decision to want to change. otherwise whatever we said here will just go to waste...

first u need to learn to trust. and u need to stop thinking abt burdening others when you share your thoughts and problems with them.

starblue SG

sometimes i feel he just wants to control me, so that next time i will feed him in his retirement, and that my brothers will follow me (like how they used to follow me when we were younger).... he just wants to assert himself over me.

rainee SG

wat did he say? Confused

alexkusu SG

Starblue, you know what? You need rest. You are most likely exhautsed.

Othello_Red SG

everyone else on the outside will have an opinion on this. but at the end of the day, it is still up to you as frankly, you know best.

starblue SG

Rolling Eyes nothing that i wanna say here... just one thing... that night, he made me kneel in front of him. while my brothers and mum were standing there.

starblue SG

lolz.. somehow i fear i might have said too much this evening... Laughing

alfagal SG

Othello_Red SG

rainee, i don't think that'd be a good idea.

renorenal SG

true... your dad seems to have a hard type personality that is crushing onto you and making you who you are now... a dilemma is a dilemma, you can either choose to move out (but that's not the solution), or choose to stay on... either way... u need to know what's best for you...

starblue SG

how do u learn to trust?

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